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Beyond the Buzzwords: What Therapy Actually Feels Like
What does therapy really feel like - beyond the clichés and Instagram quotes?
This blog explores the emotional texture of therapy: the awkward, the grounding, the unexpected - and why nuance matters in the healing process.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Oct 163 min read


Mental Health Isn’t Just for May
Why everyday awareness matters
May is Mental Health Awareness Month—a time when social media, organisations, and workplaces shine a spotlight on emotional wellbeing. And while awareness campaigns can be helpful, there’s also something quietly uncomfortable about the idea that mental health only gets the microphone once a year.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
May 92 min read


Why Rest Feels So Uncomfortable (Especially If You're Anxious or Neurodivergent)
We’re often told that rest is good for us. That slowing down is essential.But if you’ve ever tried to actually rest—and ended up feeling more unsettled than calm—you’re not alone.
In therapy, I often hear versions of the same thing:“I finally got a moment to myself… and I couldn’t relax.”“I sat down and felt guilty, like I should be doing something.”

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Apr 233 min read


The Fear of Being ‘Too Much’: Why You Apologise for Your Feelings
Have you ever caught yourself saying, “Sorry for rambling” or “I know I’m being dramatic” when sharing something important? You’re not alone. So many people—especially those who struggle with low mood, anxiety, or relationship challenges—fear that expressing their emotions will make them a burden.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Mar 262 min read


When You Look Like You’re Coping… But You’re Not
Let’s be honest — it’s entirely possible to look like you’re holding it all together while feeling like you’re barely keeping your head above water.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Mar 193 min read


Gestalt Therapy Explained—No Jargon, Just Clarity
When I first heard the term "Gestalt therapy," I thought it sounded like something straight out of a psychology textbook. But let me tell you, it’s much simpler than it sounds! Understanding Gestalt therapy might just be the key to unlocking a deeper sense of self-awareness and fulfilment in your life, especially during counselling sessions. So, grab your favourite cosy blanket, and let’s jump in!

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Jan 294 min read


Online Counselling: Is It the Right Fit for You?
As our lives become busier, the need for mental health support is more crucial than ever. Online counselling has emerged as a popular, modern alternative to traditional face-to-face therapy. In this blog post, we will explore the various advantages and disadvantages of online counselling compared to in-person sessions, helping you determine which option best suits your needs.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Jan 224 min read


Setting Boundaries in Relationships (Without Feeling Like the Villain)
In the fast-paced world we live in, personal boundaries can easily slip away. People often find themselves saying “yes” to too many commitments, overwhelming demands, and expectations from others. Recognizing how to establish and maintain boundaries is vital for ensuring our mental well-being and fostering nurturing relationships.
In this blog post, we'll explore the importance of boundaries, practical strategies for setting them, and the profound positive impact they can ha

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Jan 84 min read


What If You Didn’t Have to ‘Fix’ Yourself This January?
As we approach the end of the year, many people begin to reflect on what they want to achieve in the coming year. New Year's resolutions provide a fresh start but can also lead to feelings of stress and disappointment. This post explores the significance of resolutions, their health impacts, and how to set realistic goals, all while practicing self-kindness throughout the journey.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Jan 23 min read
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