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Counsellor
Village
Canterbury
Relationship Dynamics


The Cost of Constantly Managing Other People’s Feelings
You were never meant to carry the emotional temperature of every room you walk into.
You know how to keep the peace. How to say the right thing. How to soothe someone else’s discomfort—even at the cost of your own.
You’re tuned in. Responsive. Empathic. And exhausted.
If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. And you’re not doing anything wrong. You may have just learned, somewhere along the way, that other people’s feelings were your responsibility.
But that comes at a c

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Jul 103 min read


The Pain of Not Being Apologised To
You deserved an apology. Maybe more than one. Maybe from someone who pretended nothing happened. Or someone who brushed it off. Or someone who didn’t even notice the hurt they left behind.
But the apology never came. And that still hurts.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Jun 263 min read


Why Relationships Feel So Hard Sometimes (Even the Good Ones)
Relationships are a core part of being human. They can bring great joy and fulfilment, but they can also lead to struggle and heartache. As a therapist, I have seen many individuals navigate the complex world of relationships. In this post, I will examine relationship dynamics through a psychological lens, focusing on attachment styles and how they shape our connections with others.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Feb 124 min read


My Realistic Guide to Surviving Valentine's Day
Valentine's Day can bring up a whirlwind of emotions, from joy and excitement to anxiety and sadness. As a therapist, I frequently hear about the ups and downs people face on this day. The pressure to meet expectations—whether from partners or society—can be overwhelming, often leading to heightened anxiety or even depression. If you find yourself navigating these complicated feelings, you are not alone. Let’s go through some practical tips to help you remain calm and collect

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Feb 54 min read


Setting Boundaries in Relationships (Without Feeling Like the Villain)
In the fast-paced world we live in, personal boundaries can easily slip away. People often find themselves saying “yes” to too many commitments, overwhelming demands, and expectations from others. Recognizing how to establish and maintain boundaries is vital for ensuring our mental well-being and fostering nurturing relationships.
In this blog post, we'll explore the importance of boundaries, practical strategies for setting them, and the profound positive impact they can ha

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Jan 84 min read
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