Sometimes the hardest part of therapy isn’t opening up—it’s the fear that if you do, you’ll be judged. You might wonder: What if it’s too much? What if I don’t make sense? What if they think I’m failing? If that’s you, I want you to know this: I’m not here to judge what you’re carrying. I’m here to hold space for it.

We’re often told that rest is good for us. That slowing down is essential.But if you’ve ever tried to actually rest—and ended up feeling more unsettled than calm—you’re not alone. In therapy, I often hear versions of the same thing:“I finally got a moment to myself… and I couldn’t relax.”“I sat down and felt guilty, like I should be doing something.”

Many of us respond to emotional pain by trying to understand it rather than actually feel it. When something hurts, our first instinct might

Depression is often seen as a silent struggle that many individuals face alone. As a therapist, I encounter many clients who express feelings of low mood, sadness, and an inability to find joy in their daily lives. Online counselling has become a pivotal avenue for reaching out, allowing those grappling with these emotions to seek help in a comfortable environment. In this post, I aim to provide insights from my experiences working with depression, offering you practical appr

Relationships are a core part of being human. They can bring great joy and fulfilment, but they can also lead to struggle and heartache. As a therapist, I have seen many individuals navigate the complex world of relationships. In this post, I will examine relationship dynamics through a psychological lens, focusing on attachment styles and how they shape our connections with others.

When I first heard the term "Gestalt therapy," I thought it sounded like something straight out of a psychology textbook. But let me tell you, it’s much simpler than it sounds! Understanding Gestalt therapy might just be the key to unlocking a deeper sense of self-awareness and fulfilment in your life, especially during counselling sessions. So, grab your favourite cosy blanket, and let’s jump in!

Blue Monday, often called the most depressing day of the year, falls on the third Monday of January. After the excitement of the holiday season, dreary weather and looming post-holiday bills can bring many down. If you're struggling, you're not alone. Yet, this day can remind us about the significance of self-care. Here, we'll share practical tips from a therapist on how to uplift your mood this Blue Monday and beyond.