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When Therapy Language Gets Weaponised
Terms like trauma, triggered, gaslighting, and toxic have made their way from the therapy room to everyday conversations, TikTok captions, and meme culture.
And on one level, that’s a good thing.
Language helps us make sense of our experiences. Being able to name patterns like people-pleasing or emotional neglect can bring enormous relief - especially if those patterns were invisible or dismissed in the past.
But something else is happening too.
These words are starting t

Canterbury Village Counsellor
6 days ago3 min read
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Beyond the Buzzwords: What Therapy Actually Feels Like
What does therapy really feel like - beyond the clichés and Instagram quotes?
This blog explores the emotional texture of therapy: the awkward, the grounding, the unexpected - and why nuance matters in the healing process.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Oct 163 min read
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I Won’t Be Judging What You’re Carrying (And Here’s Why That Matters)
Sometimes the hardest part of therapy isn’t opening up—it’s the fear that if you do, you’ll be judged.
You might wonder:
What if it’s too much?
What if I don’t make sense?
What if they think I’m failing?
If that’s you, I want you to know this: I’m not here to judge what you’re carrying. I’m here to hold space for it.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
May 152 min read
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