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Why It Feels So Hard to Say No
"Why can’t I just say no?” If you’ve asked yourself this, you’re not alone. Saying no can feel heavy, sticky—even impossible.
It doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means at some point, your nervous system learned that saying yes was safer.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Aug 272 min read


The Fear of Being ‘Too Much’: Why You Apologise for Your Feelings
Have you ever caught yourself saying, “Sorry for rambling” or “I know I’m being dramatic” when sharing something important? You’re not alone. So many people—especially those who struggle with low mood, anxiety, or relationship challenges—fear that expressing their emotions will make them a burden.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Mar 262 min read


Setting Boundaries in Relationships (Without Feeling Like the Villain)
In the fast-paced world we live in, personal boundaries can easily slip away. People often find themselves saying “yes” to too many commitments, overwhelming demands, and expectations from others. Recognizing how to establish and maintain boundaries is vital for ensuring our mental well-being and fostering nurturing relationships.
In this blog post, we'll explore the importance of boundaries, practical strategies for setting them, and the profound positive impact they can ha

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Jan 84 min read
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