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Why You Keep Falling Back Into Old Patterns (Even When You Know Better)
Awareness is powerful—but it’s not magic.
You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books. You’ve gained insight. You know what your patterns are.
So why do they still show up?
Why are you still people-pleasing? Still avoiding rest? Still getting pulled into the same spirals?
If you’ve ever felt the sting of “I should know better by now”—you’re not alone. And you’re not failing. You’re being human.

Canterbury Village Counsellor
Jun 122 min read
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